Thursday, December 10, 2009

Darling, save the last dance for me!

Darling, save the last dance for me! By Maree Anderson for Writers Gone Wild

You might have figured out by some of my references to dance classes, that I love going dancing. Specifically, partner dancing--in my case, Ceroc dance, which is a kind of French Rock Jive done to any modern night-club style music with a decent beat.

For me, partner dancing is fun, pure and simple. It's "me" time and that's why even though we all (DH, me and the kids) go to karate class on Thursday nights and I'm usually pretty tired after the class, the minute I get home I rush for the shower, chuck on some clothes, grab my dancing bag and head off to Ceroc class and a full-on evening of freestyle afterward.

So what's the big deal with partner dancing?

Well, there's the enforced intimacy--hard to partner dance without body contact! And if you're comfortable with your partner and he's willing to ham it up, it gives you the opportunity to play up to him, pretend to flirt outrageously, be just a little bit sexy -- or a lot, depending on how brave you are! -- with no strings attached.

There's also that slightly scary thrill of putting yourself entirely in a man's hands and having to trust that he will keep you safe while he whirls you round the floor and performs those dips, drops and laybacks. In other words, if he decides to turn on the fancy moves, you have to trust that he won't drop you on your ass! Or, as in my case last week when I ended up upside down with my feet in the air, that he won't bash your head on the floor, LOL. (He didn't, BTW. But I did scream!)

And one of the best things about partner dancing is that for the duration of the song, while he's whirling you round the room, you are his entire focus. He can't do this alone. He needs you to showcase his moves and he's not taking his eyes off of you for a second! And I gotta say, when you're dancing with someone really good, it's an awesome feeling.

Anyway, I thought I'd take this opportunity to share some of my favorite dance movies with you -- or movies with great dance scenes in them.

First up is the tango scene from Take The Lead with Antonio Banderas:



Next up is the Team Tango from the same movie, where the female dancer plays with two male leads -- sooo very sexy!



Strictly Ballroom -- here's a gorgeous dance scene with Scott (Paul Mecurio) practicing the routine with Fran (Tara Morice) and then segueing into the competition scene.



One of my favorite "feel good" dancing movies is Dance With Me, starring Chayanne and Vanessa Williams. Here's a fantastic scene from a salsa club -- I love watching this one! They just look like they're having so much fun.



Granted this isn't a "dance" movie but it does have an amazing dance scene in it. From my favorite movie evah, The Thomas Crown Affair, check out this scene between Renee Russo and Pierce Brosnan. Oh. My. God. And that dress! Soooo sexy. (P.S. If you're offended by love scenes, don't watch on past the dance scene. It's beautifully done, but you have been warned!)



There's loads more dance-related DVDs in my cabinet but that's all I have time to find clips for at the moment -- gotta go take my son to his Year 6 school graduation dinner!

Addendum: Naima just reminded me I'd left out Dirty Dancing, which is just, like, a crime of monumental proportions! Have lost track of how many times I've watched that movie and it still makes me cry. Naima, this link is for you!

Hope you enjoy my selection.

And since I'd love any excuse to buy more DVDs, how about you share your favorite dance scenes from movies with me?

:-)
M

7 comments:

Naima Simone said...

Oh! My all time favorite dancing movie---Dirty Dancing!! Oh *sigh* To me there will never be another like it. It had everything. The music. The rich, affluent girl meets and falls in love with man from lower station. The disapproving father. The older man teaching innocent girl about passion and she teaches him about love. And of course the dancing!! Of course there is the scene at the end where she finally nails the lift. But one of my favorites is also during the song "Hungry Eyes" when he's teaching her how to dance. And oh oh, when they're just dancing for fun on the log...there are so many...

But another favorite of mine is the movie Center State. I tripped on this movie by accident and I love it!! My favorite scene in there is definitely the end when the heroine comes into her own and shines in an off-beat ballet that puts the rest of 'em to shame. I love it because so many instructors told her she had bad feet and wouldn't succeed. Not only did she succeed but she excelled and became the lead ballerina in a new company!!

I think I just wrote a book!! LOL!
Awesome post and super clips!!

Maree Anderson said...

Ohohoh, Naima.... How could I have left out Dirty Dancing???? I love that movie -- every little bit about it. Have lost track of how many times I've watched it.

And Center Stage is another one I've seen and really liked, too. That performance at the end was amazing!

Same with Save The Last Dance, feat. Julia Stiles. She's a ballet dancer who ends up incorporating Hip Hop into her dance routine for Juliard (I think that was the name of the school?)

I'm also a fan of Stomp The Yard, too -- those boys can really dance up a storm!

Louise said...

Hey Maree, great post! I LOVE dance movies too - my favourite is Step Up 2: The Streets - raw energy. But I also LOVE Antonio Banderas so Take the Lead is right up there too! (Something so sexy about a mediterranean male????).

For laughs you've got to say Full Monty - not your typical dance movie, but those guys give everything they've got (literally!!)

And for pure romance, definitely Dirty Dancing *sigh*

Maree Anderson said...

Oh, The Full Monty -- I can see it now, LOL! Great one to add to the bunch, Louise *VBG*

Bec Skrabl said...

OMG Maree! I've never seen Take the Lead or The Thomas Crowne Affair. So going out to hire them!

Just for laughs I have to add American Pie 3: The Wedding just for Stiffler's dance-off in the gay bar. Hysterical.

Also love the Step series.

Maree Anderson said...

Hey Bec, I haven't seen American Pie 3.... Stiffler in a dance-off in a gay bar??? Oh yeah. So gotta see that one!

And hope you like Take The Lead. It's based on a true story, too. The guy really does bring Latin and Ballroom classes to schools to help the kids!

As for The Thomas Crown Affair, well, that is just in a league of its own. My DH loves it too -- very clever movie and soooo very sexy. I'm betting you'll have to buy the DVD coz it's a keeper!

Katie Reus said...

Lol, Dirty Dancing was the only thing that came to mind. I used to watch that movie over and over growing up :) I don't watch a lot of musicals or music'y' movies, but that's one of my all time favorites!

 

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